ŠTA ŽELE RUSKINJE

Ruskinje koje se javljaju na sajtu www.bride.ru radi Internet muvanja imaju neka svoja očekivanja od života i životnog partnera, pa u potrazi za njim preko neta u odgovarajućoj rubrici iznose ta svoja očekivanja. Na www.bride.ru takva rubrika se zove "My perception of ideal relationship".
Ovde nasumično izdvajamo neke tipične i neke posebno zanimljive članice sajta u pogledu toga šta su odgovorile na ovo pitanje i kako definišu svoja očekivanja od partnera i veze. Radi se uglavnom o Ruskinjama, a ima i poneka članica iz drugih bivših sovjetskih republika.
Evo šta one traže i šta očekuju:

I m looking for a nice guy who wants to find a nice me - kaže prosto Marina iz Sankt Petersburga (21 godina)

I want to meet strong, reliable, fair, clever, noble, kind, solvent man who wants to have children. - definiše svoj interes Viktorija iz Kalinjingrad (34 god.)

I would like to meet clever.. With good sense of humour person..... Careful and passionate..... Without complexes and complaints upon a life..... - navodi Olja iz Pavlodara u Kazahstanu (28)

Easy madness and there are some miracles - zanesena je Alesja iz Sankt Petersburga (23)

The clever, interesting in every respect man, with the sense of humour which has reached(achieved) in life tops in business, art, sports. - ambiciozno kaže Polina iz Volgograda/ex Staljingrada (23)

I like courageous and self-confident men. It's important for me to feel support and mutual understanding from him. - traži dasu Ana, muzičarka iz Tvera, negde u Rusiji (24)

mutual respect. perfect sex. adoring of a partner. a little bit of gelousy & plenty of generosity - tako glasi kratka i jednostavna lista Galje iz Odese u Ukrajini (27)

We must understand each other, have much in common, respect opinion and independent of each other, love kids, be responsible for own decision, decide home problems together. - to bi volela Aleks iz Rostova na Donu (24)

The nice, independent, sensitive and loving satellite - tako glasi zanimljiva definicija Aide, muslimanke takođe iz Rostova na Donu (23)

First of all to find worthy, fair, clever...man. And the main thing a reliable person, I do not forgive treachery.. I never betray, In fact I am lonely - priznaje Olga iz Astrahana na ušću Volge (23)

Donja starosna granica za članice www.bride.ru je 18 godina. Napravićemo sada jedan mali uvid u definicije idealne veze koje su dale najmlađe članice sajta, pa da vidimo šta to ištu deca iz tih krajeva.
Ima tu dosta romantike:

I look for kind, gentle, tender man who could become a strong support in this mad world. - tako gleda na život mlada Moskovljanka Olga (18)

Ideal relationship it is fishing by the stars, dancing in the rain with, having snowball fights with and making snowangels in the snow, walking in the moonlight with, hand in hand as the gentle ocean waves caress our feet. - tako to poetski vidi Anja iz Minska, prestonice Belorusije (19)

equality - samo to kaže Marina iz Jekaterinburga (18)

Caress and love! And certainly interesting dialogue! - sažeta je i Natalija, takođe iz Jekaterinburga (20)

I think that ideal relations can be based on trust,freedom,financial security and similar interests! - kapitalistički kaže Darja iz Talina, glavnog grada Estonije (19)

One nešto starije članice sajta ponekad se malo više raspišu, pa postave podrobnije spiskove svojih očekivanja, kao npr.:

The man of my dream is professional,financial secured,self-employed,active and energetic.He is a strong personality. He is definitely kind and caring and he is dreaming to create a family. - tako ga vidi Lada iz Novosibirska (30)

A true give and take partnership based on truth, honesty and mutual respect. I know that nobody is perfect therefore patience and kindness is necessary. Communicate and listen. Life is a compromise. Be open minded and receptive to each other's needs. - do ove filozofije je došla Larisa iz ukrajinske prestonice Kijeva (39)

Sports constitution, older than 30 years, higher 175, self-assured, respecting themselves and others, capable to love, understand and support are more senior, sane, able to communicate with children, tender, close, it is desirable dividing mine interests. I hate irresponsibility, lie, aggression, envy, the consumer attitude to the woman, infantilism. - tako se izjašnjava Marija iz Sankt Petersburga (29)

Nasuprot tome, neke definicije su vrlo kratke:

a man from Germany, who knows Russian - precizna je i jednostavna Veronika iz Krasnodara (25)

man+lover+friend=husband - tako glasi životna jednačina Roze, muslimanke iz Kazana (22)

Friendship, partnership, sexuality, understanding, patience, respect. - ovih šest stvari traži Valentina iz ukrajinske luke Odese (28)

That man must be kind. That only. - ništa više ne treba Moskovljanki Juliji (23)

to live myself and to allow others - u tom je fazonu Olga iz Kalinjingrada na baltičkoj obali (32)

Very calm relations and spiritual union. - meditativna je Katerina iz Sankt Petersburga (22)

Zastani i razmisli o ovim ženama. Takve iste žive i među nama.

Aleksandar Gubaš

strana okačena: 6.05.2004.